Saturday, September 23, 2006

Cat Got Your Tongue?

LT and I were out running errands this week. Outside of our local over-priced organic grocery store, I noticed cages with cats, and a few dogs on leashes. Apparently the local animal shelter was hosting an event to promote "adoption" of these animals. As we left the store, we paused at the cages to look at the cats. LT loves to chase after the neighbor's cat, so I thought it would be fun to stop and look. And besides the kitties on display were really cute. I ooohed and ahhhed over the kitties, and LT and I meowed a few times. I turned to go, and passed by a volunteer holding a small dog. I stopped and said, "oh LT, look at the doggie..." And the volunteer looked at me, then at LT, and then back at me. She then said, "well, you're obviously in to adoption. How about a dog?" Um. Uh. Um. What? I quickly said, "um, no thank you," and walked away. I was muttering to myself all the way to my car. A million thoughts were racing through my head. I wanted to go back and say something to that stupid lady. I mean, what a dumb thing to say. I turned around when I got to my car and started to march back towards the store. I wanted to tell that lady that my daughter may not understand what she is saying, but other children might. And hey, I'm a dog lover too, but she might want to consider how that comment could make a child, my child, feel. As I got closer I noticed a crowd beginning to gather around the lady. And I chickened out. The last thing I wanted to do was to create a scene. I turned around and slunk back to my car. Before I set LT in her carseat, I hugged her. I wish I could just put her in a bubble and protect her from stupid crap like this.

11 Comments:

Blogger M3 (Mary-Mia) said...

Oh my god, my skin just crawls to hear that lady's remark. How utterly ignorant!!!

9/24/2006 11:26:00 AM  
Anonymous D said...

Wow is all I can come up with... talk about a person who needs to get a clue!

9/24/2006 02:45:00 PM  
Anonymous laura said...

Okay, I'm in awe of what a stupid-ass remark that was. It's one thing to think it, it's another thing to say it. I'm so sorry.

9/24/2006 05:42:00 PM  
Blogger Brooklyn Mama said...

This is the kind of comment that makes me the craziest. It seems to me to take the adoption of our children so freaking lightly -

Okay, must stop myself before getting too angry.

9/24/2006 07:07:00 PM  
Blogger Amy/grrlTravels said...

"Into adoption". Oh good heavens. I wasn't aware that we are all "into adoption" but I think that does explain a lot.

9/24/2006 08:58:00 PM  
Blogger Wicked Witch said...

I might have just kicked her in the shins. But, I am a passivist. In my heart, I would have wanted to.

9/25/2006 10:27:00 AM  
Blogger CLMama said...

Oh my goodness. Perhaps you can come up with a witty reply for the idiots who don't think before they speak. I am so sorry. That has to be very hard. Ugh. What a moron. On many levels.

9/26/2006 01:54:00 PM  
Blogger PinkDevora said...

Idiot.

There's a car company in our area running a radio commercial whose them is....Adopt a car today!

Idiots.

9/26/2006 09:10:00 PM  
Anonymous figlet said...

OhMYGOD. I want to go back and belt that woman. It makes me crazy. I realized recently that some of the local highways here have signs that say "SPONSOR-a-highway" and I'm thinking....Yeah. That's what it should be.

Into Adoption my a$$.
And yeah, I would have thought of a million things to say to her. The next day.

9/28/2006 10:16:00 PM  
Anonymous Leena said...

Holy cow. You're "into" adoption? Like you might be into sports cars and blue nail polish?

What an absurd comment.

9/29/2006 08:11:00 AM  
Blogger Space Mom said...

WTF???? Clue by four! I am formally giving you the Clue by four to smack her with....
Sorry I didn't see this earlier to offer it!

9/29/2006 04:04:00 PM  

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